oth sides of the family.
Rob Estes attends the Healthy Child Healthy World’s Mom On A Mission 6th annual awards on October 29, 2014 | Source: Getty Images
The couple’s choice of San Clemente was influenced by several factors, including the quality of education for their children. The move also offered them more space.
Their four-bedroom house by the beach was a significant upgrade from the smaller, more expensive options they had in Santa Monica. Living in what they describe as a “bubble” by the beach, the family embraced a lifestyle centered on togetherness and shared experiences.
Rob Estes attends the Pump Station and Nurtury 30th anniversary celebration on August 14, 2016 | Source: Getty Images
Their move to the town also holds special significance for the couple, as Erin lived there when they first met. They were set up on a blind date by mutual friends, and it was in this town that they had their first date.
At the time, Estes was splitting his time between Seattle and Los Angeles, without a permanent residence in Los Angeles. He was staying with his sister in San Clemente when he met Erin. Later, Estes landed a role in “The Women’s Murder Club” and secured a place in Santa Monica.
Rob Estes on August 14, 2016 | Source: Getty Images
Despite the demands of his career, the actor makes it a point to be present at home, where family dinners are a nightly tradition. “Eighty to ninety percent of the time, we all have dinner together every night,” he explained. Their commitment to family values is evident in their everyday routines.
Healthy Child Healthy World outreach manager Meredith McMahon, actor and Healthy Child Healthy World advocate Rob Estes and Erin Bolte-Estes attend the Pump Station and Nurtury 30th anniversary celebration at Pump Station & Nurtury on August 14, 2016 | Source: Getty Images
The Bolte-Estes household has a strict “no electronics at dinner” rule, ensuring that mealtime is an opportunity for conversation and bonding. For them, it’s about creating a space where they can unwind, disconnect from the outside world, and focus on each other.
Erin emphasized, “We’re a strong non-electronic family, and at night our routine with Makai is books, teeth, books, bed.” This focus on family and simplicity has become a defining characteristic of their life in San Clemente.
Rob Estes poses with Pump Station & Nurtury CEO Cheryl Petran during the Pump Station and Nurtury 30th anniversary celebration on August 14, 2016 | Source: Getty Images
2020s
When it comes to relaxation, the actor finds solace in music and gardening. Playing music has been a passion of his since his school days, and it remains an essential part of his life.
Rob Estes attends the screening of “Miranda’s Victim,” in Los Angeles, California, on October 5, 2023 | Source: Getty Images
Gardening is another way he finds peace, particularly when he’s feeling stressed. “Trees go away when Rob’s not happy,” Boltre joked, highlighting how he channels his energy into working in their garden. Whether chopping down trees or tending to plants, these activities give him a sense of calm and fulfillment.
Away from the pressures of fame, the actor has found peace and contentment in his role as a husband and father. He relishes the small moments that come with raising a family in a place that truly feels like home.
Rob Estes attends the screening of “Miranda’s Victim,” in Los Angeles, California, on October 5, 2023 | Source: Getty Images
This quieter life didn’t mean the end of his career, but rather a redefinition of success. He has continued to act, albeit selectively, choosing roles that resonated with him personally rather than chasing the fame that once defined him.
In December 2023, fans were thrilled to see him return to the screen in the trailer for the movie “Beautiful Wedding.” This latest role showcases that even as he has embraced a quieter, family-oriented life, his passion for acting remains strong.
Rob Estes attends the screening of “Miranda’s Victim,” in Los Angeles, California, on October 5, 2023 | Source: Getty Images
Rob Estes attends the screening of “The Italians” on March 4, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
Living in San Clemente with his wife, Erin, and their blended family, he has found happiness in simplicity. The choice to prioritize family, education, and a slower pace of life has allowed him to thrive away from the spotlight. Estes, 61, has proven that true success is measured not by fame but by the quality of one’s personal life.
